We attract elements, (people, places, things) and manifest an experience with the elements we attract. Therefore, all manifestations begin with attraction. Attraction is instantaneous and only sticks for a few moments if nothing is there to keep it held in place. The moment an attracted opportunity is present, it must immediately be shifted in a way that allows it to be a contribution towards your desired, manifested experience. In other words, you must have an open spot in your current, overall experience ready for your attractions.
You don't want to lose or reject a promising attraction due to poor planning. You need to have open areas ready to be occupied. In other words, you need to have a place in your life ready for when a potential “element” is in the midst of your presence. In a moments notice, you must be ready and able to offer your open areas because they are vacant and ready for the synergy you feel the opportunity or person can provide.
At this crucial moment, you must be grounded in the present with an intentional presence. In other words, you must be and stay ready. As you stay ready, you stay in the moment because you are prepared to interject. This is the moment of “take-off,” like when a plane takes off from the tarmac. This is the point where the wheels have just cleared the ground and the plane is the most vulnerable. Once the plane gains speed and altitude, it can handle turbulence due to its speed and inertia.
That being said, if you ever want to get a painfully accurate idea on what it’s like to attract and have nothing to bond that attraction to your life, because there was nothing set up for that attraction, then read the “missed connections” ads. After reading a few articles you will quickly see a pattern. You will notice that the individuals who wrote these ads were all caught off guard.
Essentially, they attracted, but the attraction didn't stick because they had no available spots in the back of their minds that were easily accessible and ready to be claimed. They had to leave, regroup, then realize where the open areas in their life are, that could be available. By the time they realize what just happened, the crucial moment is lost and can never be re-lived again.
These are people who were going through the motions in their comfort-zones and were preoccupied with their regular routine. When an opportunity snuck up on them, there was nothing that made the person of interest want to stay. Had these people set a place in their lives for others (so to be a viable option for what others might be seeking) they would have been the appropriate “role” needed to follow through and make it a real connection.//
Instead of trying to draw the lost opportunity back, these people need to decide on and prepare open spots in their lives for when the next opportunity arrives. At least then, they will handle the situation differently. They will approach the situation with specific expectations, which will help them further the opportunity.
Here’s an example that ends with a positive outcome. In my mid-twenties I had a roommate who wanted to get married and start a family so he moved out, bought a house and fixed it up. It wasn't very long before he found a wife. This is because, as he continued dating, he had more substance in his intentions and more confidence to see them through. His greater substance and confidence attracted a woman who was also looking for a deeper commitment. Birds of a feather flock together and as I see it, our intentions are our feathers. All of those pieces came into place by him doing that one thing. That one thing was the preparation of an open spot which created a void to be filled.
There is something called “the universal law of incompletion” where the universe is constantly balancing itself. By creating a void, you are setting up areas in your life to be occupied. You are creating imbalances to be balanced. Having open areas in your life, and staying focused on filling them, works wonders in the world of deliberate manifestation.
That said, it's enough to be one-hundred-percent sure on how you want those open areas in your life to be occupied, to create noticeable changes in your life. Once a solid intention to fill your self-made voids has been made, it’s enough to keep those areas in the back of your mind by mentally reviewing them throughout the day, or just staying aware of them. By doing this, you will not only amp up your gravity but will be magnetic when opportunity knocks. When opportunity knocks, your presence, magnetism, attitude, and state of mind will follow suit and will take care of the rest.
By knowing which areas in your life you are ready to offer, you are intentional, ready, and in the moment. The ongoing universal balancing that's always taking place will take place on a physical level when you are in the present moment because that's where your attention is. As you remain intentionally in the present moment, the re-balancing of circumstances will turn to your favor. The voids you have created for the sake of filling will be filled as you stay grounded and allow in. Keeping yourself grounded while focused on your availabilities will give you results quickly.
Just to be clear, an open spot isn't like a cage you would use to lock up your property. An open spot is your time and the amount of energy you wish to put into that time. A qualified occupant is a co-creator who will give you a specific amount of their time with a specific amount of their energy, in return. A qualified opportunity will provide a specific amount of compensation for your time and energy.
It’s up to you whether you want to draw in opportunities to share that availability with you, on your terms, or whether you want an availability that leaves you open to going with the flow. As you continue to feed the synergy, you will move towards new experiences and expand on them until they become part of your new lifestyle.